Does giving pleasure feel like a chore for you? An act of service? An obligation? Is there resistance? Perhaps you're so deep into your tantric lovemaking that your dirty, kinky, passionate, DTF energy has fallen off the wayside? Perhaps anxiety, shame, and lack of confidence within yourself lead to an awkward energy that taints your experience or willingness to try?

I feel you.
Stacey feels you too!

This week we’re diving into gourmet 5-minute fucks, cock worship, and empowering your inner slut to please your partner/lover from a place of dripping, oozing, overflowing love, and power.

Today we deep dive into intuition and how to distinguish between higher "knowings" and fear-based trauma response (so insightful!). We talk about dating, saying no, self-worth, how to know when it's time to let go of a relationship, and what it really takes to live an intuition-lead life.

In this episode I cover some of the most common issues I'm seeing like separation anxiety, avoidant or withdrawing lovers, communication no-no's as well as tips and tools to keep your comms (verbal + visual) meaningful, assuring, fulfilling... And sexy.

Need I say more?

Who knew that your own two hands and some seriously sensational breast loving could get you into so much more than “the mood”?.⁠ As you all know, Heart Space is launching tonight (for those in the pre-sale list... If you haven't signed up then do it now!) and I wanted to bring you some fun facts about breast massage and why it's beneficial for you - mind, body + soul.

I've decided I wanted to turn up the heat, get a little kinky and do a series of playful and V. sexy episodes with a whole lot of R18 goodness sprinkled in there.

This episode is me sharing some of the tips and tools you can use to take your sex life and self-pleasure sessions to the next. friggen. level.

In this episode, I talk about Maslow's hierarchy of human needs, as well as the basics of the chakra system to help you better understand your response to the current climate. And how you can learn to self soothe, develop a deep sense of self-security, and lay a solid new foundation for the turned-on life you're about to create.

I've had so many of you writing to me this week about how to stay turned-on when the shitake is fitting the fan.

It is absolutely understandable that libidos will be all over the show due to the current climate, and that is 110% okay. This episode offers a range of pointers to relieve stress, anxiety AND sexual pressure while giving you tools to slow down and tune into what you need.

There are societal cookie-cutter templates of what relationships "should" look like. Expectations doused on us from old, and frankly irrelevant relating models that do not match the reality of the modern social climate. We live longer. We're flexible and mobile. Women don't depend on men anymore for money like in Season One of Mad Men. That was only fifty years ago, so it's no surprise that the remnants of these old relationship paradigms still haunt us. We are now living in a time where two people come together purely by CHOICE. With 100% freedom (or so we like to believe) to create a relationship that works for them.

Self-love. That mystical thing that everyone keeps preaching about in the wellness scene. That deeply annoying "you just need to love yourself" advice from peers. Those two little words that look pretty in graphic quotes on Instagram... But what the hell actually is it? Furthermore, how does one even begin to embody this ethereal quality?

Communication is a sexual superpower! But it's also an acquired skill... In this episode, you'll learn how to encourage conversations that allow for understanding, vulnerability, empathy, (without sounding like a patronizing asshole) so that you can feel heard, seen & understood.

On average, one in three women have had an abortion, that's an awful lot of women and not an awful lot of healthy, judgment-free guidance on how to actually deal with such a process. Political & religious dogma aside, there is still very little support for those needing it.

This V-Day special is going out to all my single ladies!⁠ ⁠

Let's get one thing straight, a relationship is not a measurement tool of your success, your lovability or your enough-ness.⁠ ⁠ Some people settle in relationships because they don't want to be alone.⁠ ⁠

Otherside won't settle for anything less than M A G I C.⁠ ⁠

I am one of those people.

But having high standards for yourself and the life you want to live means loving yourself, regardless of your relationship status.⁠ ⁠Being single is an exciting opportunity and an absolute gift (if you choose it to be).⁠ ⁠

Jealousy and comparison are completely natural (and very human) emotions, it's about how you deal with them that really counts.

In this episode of The Sexual Wellness Podcast, learn how to overcome jealousy and comparisonitis (particularly around other women) by learning how to love and accept yourself to even greater depths, as well as use these emotions for expansion and inspiration instead of contraction and disempowerment.

Sexual liberation can come with a whole lot of pressures, shoulds, and collective norms on how to behave and perform in a certain way. The truth is sexual liberation isn't about any of that. There is no destination. No right or wrong. No proving of worth. No template to strive towards for validation of your sexual enough-ness. I am so proud to share this episode with you all. My post Kiwiburn downloads are intertwined within these 45 minutes. Listen and feel your body relax with the release of expectations, self-doubt, and full permission-giving to be yourself - always. Because THAT, is your sexual liberation.

There's no shame in using (and enjoying!) online dating and it certainly doesn't have to be bland - listen to this episode to find out how to create nourishing, fulfilling experiences and get the most out of your time online.

This episode is about how to be a confident, feminine woman at home, at work, and in the world. Femininity isn't always supported in our busy, go-go lives, so how can you integrate healthy sexuality and modern femininity into your every day for optimal health and happiness? Find out in this episode.

Sex is to be enjoyed! So why do we get so caught up in the anxiety of it all? How can you let go of dissociating, understand your needs and tap into the real pleasure that you're capable of? By getting back into your BODY. This episode is about reclaiming your pleasure, learning to stay IN the experience and share your authentic sexuality with your partner for more magnetic, connected and deeply pleasurable sexual experiences.

How you exit love is a reflection of how you love, and it can be done in a way that promotes care, love, and integrity... Or create complete agony on top of what is an already heartbreaking experience. Listen to this episode to learn about some of the steps and you can take to move through a breakup with ease and grace.

What is the key to becoming so magnetic that people, opportunities, money, and abundance flows to you with ease and grace?

What is the gateway to your arousal, your wetness, and your turn-on?

What is the way to stay grounded when you're triggered and continue to move through challenges while staying true to yourself and your feminity?

Listen to this episode to find out.