This week I'm bringing to you content from the secret vaults of my coaching realms! HOW TO BE AN EXQUISITE LOVER or more specifically how to actually enjoy giving + receiving pleasure.⁠ ⁠ If you're longing for better sex or looking for your king, yet you don't enjoy giving head... Then we have GOT to talk.⁠ ⁠ In this episode, I'll be sharing with you the mindset tips of giving pleasure and how to step into epic loverdom.⁠ ⁠

Are you too busy for sex, self-care, and all of the nourishing things in life? Do you feel chaotic, stressed, and too tired to even think about getting turned on? Mmmhmm. I feel you. So I made this episode to give you some tough lovin' on being "busy".

I've been wanting to share this episode since it came out! It's just full of so much juice! We go into female sexuality, orgasm, arousal, and how to integrate pleasure into every day for a turned-on life.

I’m not going to sugar coat this, establishing new boundaries (especially if you’re new to the boundary setting gym) can be awkward, uncomfortable, and even painful at times (but in a growing-pains kind of way). I wanted to make the process as easy as possible so that you’re supported with a cushion suit when navigating this treacherous terrain.

This episode is about what gets in the way of us asserting ourselves, from people-pleasing to drugs and alcohol, there's your classic dose of ah-ha moments along with a practical exercise you can take home and start today!

Sexual shame is the number 1 killer of sex lives around the globe and unfortunately a challenge to avoid due to the taboo nature of sexual liberation in our society.

This episode is about uncovering sexual shame and some of the steps you can take to start identifying and slay your shame dragons.

Let's take it right back to the beginning and get you set up for success in the realms of sexual wellness and creating the turned-on life of your dreams. Finding YOUR path to sexual liberation and blossoming into your unique goddessence is a journey and this episode is here to equip you with everything you need for success.

Tapping into your intuition can be a puzzling endeavor, especially when we have a body full of mixed messages.
In this episode I dive into my four centers of intuition, breaking down how each center contributes to your decisions, and how to get in that full-body-YES flow.

Does giving pleasure feel like a chore for you? An act of service? An obligation? Is there resistance? Perhaps you're so deep into your tantric lovemaking that your dirty, kinky, passionate, DTF energy has fallen off the wayside? Perhaps anxiety, shame, and lack of confidence within yourself lead to an awkward energy that taints your experience or willingness to try?

I feel you.
Stacey feels you too!

This week we’re diving into gourmet 5-minute fucks, cock worship, and empowering your inner slut to please your partner/lover from a place of dripping, oozing, overflowing love, and power.

Today we deep dive into intuition and how to distinguish between higher "knowings" and fear-based trauma response (so insightful!). We talk about dating, saying no, self-worth, how to know when it's time to let go of a relationship, and what it really takes to live an intuition-lead life.

In this episode I cover some of the most common issues I'm seeing like separation anxiety, avoidant or withdrawing lovers, communication no-no's as well as tips and tools to keep your comms (verbal + visual) meaningful, assuring, fulfilling... And sexy.

Need I say more?

Who knew that your own two hands and some seriously sensational breast loving could get you into so much more than “the mood”?.⁠ As you all know, Heart Space is launching tonight (for those in the pre-sale list... If you haven't signed up then do it now!) and I wanted to bring you some fun facts about breast massage and why it's beneficial for you - mind, body + soul.

I've decided I wanted to turn up the heat, get a little kinky and do a series of playful and V. sexy episodes with a whole lot of R18 goodness sprinkled in there.

This episode is me sharing some of the tips and tools you can use to take your sex life and self-pleasure sessions to the next. friggen. level.

In this episode, I talk about Maslow's hierarchy of human needs, as well as the basics of the chakra system to help you better understand your response to the current climate. And how you can learn to self soothe, develop a deep sense of self-security, and lay a solid new foundation for the turned-on life you're about to create.

I've had so many of you writing to me this week about how to stay turned-on when the shitake is fitting the fan.

It is absolutely understandable that libidos will be all over the show due to the current climate, and that is 110% okay. This episode offers a range of pointers to relieve stress, anxiety AND sexual pressure while giving you tools to slow down and tune into what you need.

There are societal cookie-cutter templates of what relationships "should" look like. Expectations doused on us from old, and frankly irrelevant relating models that do not match the reality of the modern social climate. We live longer. We're flexible and mobile. Women don't depend on men anymore for money like in Season One of Mad Men. That was only fifty years ago, so it's no surprise that the remnants of these old relationship paradigms still haunt us. We are now living in a time where two people come together purely by CHOICE. With 100% freedom (or so we like to believe) to create a relationship that works for them.

Self-love. That mystical thing that everyone keeps preaching about in the wellness scene. That deeply annoying "you just need to love yourself" advice from peers. Those two little words that look pretty in graphic quotes on Instagram... But what the hell actually is it? Furthermore, how does one even begin to embody this ethereal quality?

Communication is a sexual superpower! But it's also an acquired skill... In this episode, you'll learn how to encourage conversations that allow for understanding, vulnerability, empathy, (without sounding like a patronizing asshole) so that you can feel heard, seen & understood.

On average, one in three women have had an abortion, that's an awful lot of women and not an awful lot of healthy, judgment-free guidance on how to actually deal with such a process. Political & religious dogma aside, there is still very little support for those needing it.

This V-Day special is going out to all my single ladies!⁠ ⁠

Let's get one thing straight, a relationship is not a measurement tool of your success, your lovability or your enough-ness.⁠ ⁠ Some people settle in relationships because they don't want to be alone.⁠ ⁠

Otherside won't settle for anything less than M A G I C.⁠ ⁠

I am one of those people.

But having high standards for yourself and the life you want to live means loving yourself, regardless of your relationship status.⁠ ⁠Being single is an exciting opportunity and an absolute gift (if you choose it to be).⁠ ⁠