Real good loving.

Confident. Curious. And as wild as you want to be. Explore new sexual horizons, where sex is authentic—not a performance—and where you feel comfortable bringing your whole erotic self.

  • Expand your erotic range—safely, playfully, and at your own pace

  • Discover new orgasmic possibilities and learn to communicate what you like

  • Reclaim your sexual confidence and move beyond learnt shame, fear, or self-doubt

  • Explore your unique erotic identity—beyond performance or pressure

  • Experience deeper, more connected pleasure in solo or partnered intimacy

  • Reignite passion in long-term relationships with new-love chemistry and creativity

  • Feel sexually alive again after trauma, rupture, or disconnection

  • Embody confidence, clarity, and self-trust in your sexual expression

This work empowers you to

Where you may be now

  • In a long-term relationship where sex feels stuck, infrequent, or uninspired

  • A new parent navigating shifts in intimacy, identity, and energy

  • In a season of high-performance, where sex and pleasure have taken a back seat

  • Single and dating again after a breakup, wanting to feel confident and embodied

  • Exploring your sexuality more deeply—curious about Tantra, kink, or new experiences

  • Carrying shame, anxiety, or shutdown that blocks connection and pleasure

  • Feeling disconnected from your body, your turn-on, or your sense of desire

  • Unsure how to talk about sex with your partner—or how to ask for what you want

  • Healing from sexual trauma and ready to feel safe, connected, and empowered again

  • A direct connection to your body and what genuinely turns you on

  • Freedom from anxiety, performance pressure, or sexual overthinking

  • Communication tools to express desires, needs, and boundaries—without shame

  • A sense of erotic wholeness—where your sexuality feels integrated, not fragmented

  • Renewed passion and creativity in your sex life, solo or with a partner

  • The ability to explore with confidence, clarity, and consent

  • More play, variety, and pleasure—in ways that feel real, safe, and exciting

  • The felt experience of being a powerful, present, and generous lover

What you’ll walk away with

Great sex begins with remembering yourself as an erotic, alive being—and letting that truth be felt and shared. Together, we meet what’s present, soften what’s in the way, and create space for more vitality, intimacy, and pleasure.

Weaving the esoteric with the evidence-based.

My Approach

Sexual growth asks for more than just tips or technique—it asks for presence, patience, and a willingness to get honest with what’s real. My work bridges the esoteric and evidence-based, using a trauma-informed, somatic approach that honours your pace, values, and desires.

We don’t rush. We don’t bypass. We follow what’s alive.

Sessions are attuned, collaborative, and grounded in respect. Whether you’re here to reignite desire, heal old wounds, or become more of who you are as a lover—I meet you there.

“I’ve spent years in therapy but nothing touched the numbness or tension the way this did. I feel more alive, more in tune with what I want, and less afraid to ask for it.”
— Susie T

Welcome—I trust whatever brought you here.

Whether you're partnered or solo, healing or expanding, shy or bold—this work invites you into greater sexual agency, honesty, and possibility.

I offer sessions both online and in person (in Auckland, New Zealand).

Fill out the form or get in touch directly at: hello@laura-ellen.com