Create relationships you’re proud of.

Honest. Secure. Alive. Where love feels like expansion, not contraction—and where you’re met with as much as you bring.

  • Outgrow anxious, avoidant, or draining patterns—and feel steady in who you are.

  • Attract and sustain emotionally available, values-aligned love.

  • Recover after breakups, betrayal, or disconnection—while reconnecting to possibility and confidence.

  • Communicate with calm and clarity—even in conflict—and feel proud of how you show up.

  • Name your needs and boundaries—without guilt or self-doubt.

  • Feel met, chosen, and respected—without chasing, proving, or settling.

  • Trust yourself in intimacy and its inevitable challenges—and move through love with grace.

This work empowers you to

Where you may be now

  • Navigating a challenging breakup or major life transition

  • Starting to date again—and wanting to do it differently this time

  • Tired of dating, swiping, or attracting people who aren’t aligned

  • In a relationship that’s no longer working, but not ready to walk away

  • Caught in old dynamics that no longer reflect who you are

  • Repeating patterns, despite all the work you’ve already done

  • In a long-term partnership where intimacy, sex, or emotional closeness has shifted

  • Feeling more confident and grounded in who you are and what you want

  • Freedom from looping overthinking, second-guessing, or emotional shutdowns

  • Greater clarity and calm in communication and conflict

  • Reclaiming parts of yourself that felt hidden, shut down, or lost

  • The ability to choose partners (or stay in relationships) from a place of deep self-trust

  • Real, lasting change in how you show up in your relationships

  • The ability to stay open and connected—even when things feel hard

  • A more secure, connected experience of love—one that expands, rather than drains, your sense of self

  • More ease, intimacy, and erotic presence in both new and long-term relationships

What you’ll walk away with

Successful relationships start with you liking who you are when you're in them. Together, we take an honest look at all sides of the street and empower you to show up with integrity.

Weaving the esoteric with the evidence-based.

My Approach

Insight can happen in an instant—lasting change happens over time. This work honours—and facilitates—both, using a whole-body, relational approach.

Together, we cultivate what I call an inner ecology of thriving—one that’s not just intellectualised, but felt and lived.

Sessions are collaborative, attuned to your needs, and guided at a pace that allows for real integration.

Laura guides with such grace and strength. I felt fully met, like nothing was too much or too messy.
— Krista A
Laura Ellen Sex & Relationship Therapist Auckland, NZ

Welcome—I trust whatever brought you here.

Whether you're in a relationship, re-entering the dating world, or moving through a major transition, this work offers a grounded, body-based path forward.

I offer sessions both online and in person (in Auckland, New Zealand).

Fill out the form or get in touch directly at: hello@laura-ellen.com